Birthday Calendar Apps Compared: Find the Best Tracker for You
Lava Team · March 1, 2026
Your phone has a calendar. Your contacts have birthday fields. Facebook sends notifications. So why do you still forget birthdays? Because none of these tools were designed to be a birthday system. Let's compare the apps that are.
The Full Comparison
| Feature | Google Cal | Apple Cal | BirthdayAlarm | hip (iOS) | Birthdays (iOS) | LavaWish |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Auto-import contacts | Partial | Yes | Manual | Yes | Yes | Manual (coming) |
| Custom reminder timing | Yes | Yes | 1–7 days | 1–7 days | 1 day | Up to 90 days |
| Push notifications | Yes | Yes | Email only | Yes | Yes | Yes (+ SMS on paid) |
| Card sending | No | No | Basic e-cards | No | No | Yes (photo + song + unwrap) |
| Gift card attachment | No | No | No | No | No | Coming soon |
| Works on Android | Yes | No | Web only | No | No | Yes (web-based) |
| Works on iPhone | Yes | Yes | Web only | Yes | Yes | Yes (web-based) |
| Free? | Yes | Yes | Freemium | Yes (ads) | Yes | Yes (core free) |
| Unique feature | Calendar integration | Siri integration | Oldest service | Clean design | Simple UI | Card creation + opening experience |
Google Calendar & Apple Calendar
These aren't birthday apps — they're calendars that happen to show birthdays. Google Calendar can import birthday data from Google Contacts. Apple Calendar shows birthdays from your iCloud contacts. Both let you set custom reminders.
Best for: People who already live in their calendar app and only need basic date tracking. Not ideal if you want to act on the reminder (send a card, buy a gift) without leaving the app.
BirthdayAlarm
One of the original birthday reminder services (since 2002). Sends email reminders and has a basic e-card feature. The interface feels dated and there's no mobile app — it's web-only. E-cards are generic templates without photo personalization or music.
Best for: Users who prefer email-based reminders and don't need a modern mobile experience.
hip Birthday (iOS)
A well-designed iOS app that syncs with your contacts and sends clean push notifications. Simple, focused, and pleasant to use. But it's reminder-only — no card sending, no celebration features, and iOS exclusive.
Best for: iPhone users who want a simple, clean reminder and nothing more.
Birthdays (iOS)
Another iOS-only app with a minimalist approach. Imports from contacts, shows upcoming birthdays, sends basic notifications. Very bare-bones — no customization, no cards, limited reminder options.
Best for: iPhone users who want the absolute simplest possible birthday list.
LavaWish
LavaWish is the only platform on this list that's designed for the complete birthday experience: track, remind, and celebrate. It stores birthdays, sends reminders (up to 90 days in advance on paid plans), and lets you create personalized cards with your own photo, a custom song, and a gift-opening experience.
The card feature is what separates LavaWish from every other option. When the reminder fires, you don't just get a notification — you get a one-tap path to creating something beautiful for the birthday person. It works on any device (web-based), has no ads on any tier, and the core features are free.
Best for: Anyone who wants to not just remember birthdays but actually celebrate them in a meaningful way. The ideal all-in-one solution.
Our Recommendation
If you just need a date on a calendar, use whatever calendar app you already have. But if you want to actually make people feel special on their birthday — consistently, effortlessly, and personally — LavaWish is in a category of its own. No other birthday app lets you go from "reminder" to "personalized card with music" in under 60 seconds.
The Only Birthday App That Reminds AND Celebrates
Track every birthday + send personalized cards at app.lavawish.com